This happened to me. So I went out to get an IUD. My partner became furious and began accusing me of cheating all the time, insisting I MUST be using birth control that couldn't be circumvented in order to avoid having him find out by having a baby that didn't look like him. Ironically enough, he had told me several times about how his father deliberately sabatoged the birth control method they were using because he wanted kids and his mother didn't want to go through being pregnant.
You know of the last person I was with too and his constant subtle hints about wanted children. It's simply not true that women always want babies and are trying to trick men into it. Lots of men want children and don't care what hell they put women thorugh to get them. And for all those sueing to be able to force a woman to have an abortion, there are many who have sued to try to force women to have "their" children.
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Date: 2010-01-28 11:09 pm (UTC)You know of the last person I was with too and his constant subtle hints about wanted children. It's simply not true that women always want babies and are trying to trick men into it. Lots of men want children and don't care what hell they put women thorugh to get them. And for all those sueing to be able to force a woman to have an abortion, there are many who have sued to try to force women to have "their" children.