if i am not updating into any LJ, it is because i am either sick or busy, and that is that...
it reminds me of when younger people think it is amusing to send me a "*poke*" message via IM if i have looked away from the computer for any reason, or have taken too long to come back from a run to the kitchen,etc.... when someone types *poke* i swear i can literally feel it on my arm and i end up gritting my teeth. blah :-(
if a friend of mine has gone silent via LJ, and wasn't updating at all for a while, i contact them via email (what a concept) or go into an old post of theirs and post and off-topic comment just asking "honey, are you okay? i am worried because you haven't posted in a while"...
i just don't even see the need for the "nudge"....
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Date: 2006-01-18 06:51 pm (UTC)if i am not updating into any LJ, it is because i am either sick or busy, and that is that...
it reminds me of when younger people think it is amusing to send me a "*poke*" message via IM if i have looked away from the computer for any reason, or have taken too long to come back from a run to the kitchen,etc.... when someone types *poke* i swear i can literally feel it on my arm and i end up gritting my teeth. blah :-(
if a friend of mine has gone silent via LJ, and wasn't updating at all for a while, i contact them via email (what a concept) or go into an old post of theirs and post and off-topic comment just asking "honey, are you okay? i am worried because you haven't posted in a while"...
i just don't even see the need for the "nudge"....
Shalom,
Eve & Co.