Oh, I am! But I practice it as consentual power exchange. The very idea of "power exchange" implies that two (or more) people who begin as equal partners negotiate an exchange of power for mutual growth and pleasure.
*I'm* like that, but Casby seems to be just the opposite.
Some might take 'defeat' to be a kind of violation; others might take it as a welcome conquest. Some feminists have described all heterosexual sex as rape; whereas I know women who love to feel 'taken' in just the right way. The key difference is that violation is an act committed without respect or compassion.
So it is not the act of ravishing itself that is the problem, but the spirit in which it is done, and the closeness or isolation it cultivates.
lol, I've thought of that. Still rather have a willy though.
Hehehe. Most of the time I wish I could veer back and forth at will. It would be really nice to have a yoni, but I don't want to give up my lingam to get it.
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Date: 2004-03-25 07:05 am (UTC)Oh, I am! But I practice it as consentual power exchange. The very idea of "power exchange" implies that two (or more) people who begin as equal partners negotiate an exchange of power for mutual growth and pleasure.
*I'm* like that, but Casby seems to be just the opposite.
Some might take 'defeat' to be a kind of violation; others might take it as a welcome conquest. Some feminists have described all heterosexual sex as rape; whereas I know women who love to feel 'taken' in just the right way. The key difference is that violation is an act committed without respect or compassion.
So it is not the act of ravishing itself that is the problem, but the spirit in which it is done, and the closeness or isolation it cultivates.
lol, I've thought of that. Still rather have a willy though.
Hehehe. Most of the time I wish I could veer back and forth at will. It would be really nice to have a yoni, but I don't want to give up my lingam to get it.