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Nov. 19th, 2002 06:21 amMy boss is still giving me a ride to work while my car remains in the shop. He does this even though, as he told me last week, he feels uncomfortable driving through my Irish Channel neighborhood.
Since I'm dependent on him in this way, while I'm riding with him doesn't seem like the best time to argue politics as forcefully as I might otherwise. If I was on even ground with him I'd have little fear of jumping in there and mixing it up. But there's such little benefit from such discussion I'd rather have his goodwill. So I have generally picked responses to his comments that have been diplomatic in the extreme.
I considered taking up an argument this morning, though, when we heard an item on the news about a police officer on the North Shore (of Lake Pontchartrain) who had been indicted for sexually assaulting a stripper after a traffic stop.
His comment: "That's probably the other way around, and she attacked him."
Time for a civics lesson? I contemplated it, decided against it. If that's his attitude towards sex workers I'm not going to change it in the space of five to ten minutes.
So, I held my tongue, and felt vaguely dirty for having done so.
Since I'm dependent on him in this way, while I'm riding with him doesn't seem like the best time to argue politics as forcefully as I might otherwise. If I was on even ground with him I'd have little fear of jumping in there and mixing it up. But there's such little benefit from such discussion I'd rather have his goodwill. So I have generally picked responses to his comments that have been diplomatic in the extreme.
I considered taking up an argument this morning, though, when we heard an item on the news about a police officer on the North Shore (of Lake Pontchartrain) who had been indicted for sexually assaulting a stripper after a traffic stop.
His comment: "That's probably the other way around, and she attacked him."
Time for a civics lesson? I contemplated it, decided against it. If that's his attitude towards sex workers I'm not going to change it in the space of five to ten minutes.
So, I held my tongue, and felt vaguely dirty for having done so.