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sophiaserpentia ([personal profile] sophiaserpentia) wrote2004-03-24 01:45 pm

Thanat-eros.

The act of sex is equivalent to spitting the eye of fate.

It is life, defying its death sentence. It is celebration in the face of eventual loss and sorrow. It is closeness and intimacy in spite of the fear and aloofness bred into us by callousness.

This is why sex is sacred, and why it is such an important battlefield with the archons. The archons must control sex to retain their control; this is how they play ape politics with us. Archontic control of sex is the equivalent of "collaring" the entire society.

[identity profile] sophiaserpentia.livejournal.com 2004-03-25 07:05 am (UTC)(link)
I thought you were into BDSM

Oh, I am! But I practice it as consentual power exchange. The very idea of "power exchange" implies that two (or more) people who begin as equal partners negotiate an exchange of power for mutual growth and pleasure.


*I'm* like that, but Casby seems to be just the opposite.

Some might take 'defeat' to be a kind of violation; others might take it as a welcome conquest. Some feminists have described all heterosexual sex as rape; whereas I know women who love to feel 'taken' in just the right way. The key difference is that violation is an act committed without respect or compassion.

So it is not the act of ravishing itself that is the problem, but the spirit in which it is done, and the closeness or isolation it cultivates.


lol, I've thought of that. Still rather have a willy though.

Hehehe. Most of the time I wish I could veer back and forth at will. It would be really nice to have a yoni, but I don't want to give up my lingam to get it.

[identity profile] yvesilena.livejournal.com 2004-03-25 09:22 am (UTC)(link)
Ah, we *were* talking about the same thing at cross purposes. That all makes sense :)

(Can't they make perfect hermaphrodites yet? :/ )

[identity profile] sophiaserpentia.livejournal.com 2004-03-25 10:18 am (UTC)(link)
(Can't they make perfect hermaphrodites yet? :/ )

If so, I am unaware of it.