You're one of the people I had in mind when I wrote part 5 above. I don't know that cissexual necessarily applies to people who don't feel particularly connected, identity-wise, to the sexual configuration of their body. But trans doesn't fit either, because to the degree that you experience any dysphoria, it wouldn't be relieved if you started to live as a man.

I don't know. I don't feel very comfortable speculating on what terminology (if any) would work.