sometimes i just want to say "so what were you focused when you were 6 years old? 9? 13? 16? we have have an entire lost childhood and adolescence we didn't get to experience, and now we're expected to from dealing with repressed desires from the time we were 4 or 5 years old directly into adulthood without any time in between? yeah right. i'll tell you what, you start showing us feminine identified women who were never hyper-focused on skirts, makeup, high-heels, Barbie dolls, and lipstick at any point in their lives and went directly from womb to mature womanhood and let us know how they did it, and we'll start working on transwoman to do the same."