As the mother of a son who is genetically 45X/46XY and no signs yet of where he is missing the male chromosomes (despite his heterochromia or different colored eyes), we are letting him decide his own gender as he develops more. Currently, he identifies toy-wise and prefers male toys for the most part, and looks physically male equipment-wise with a a VERY petite and girlish build and female facial steucture. Most girls his same age are much larger than him even. We are trying to nurture in a way that nature is allowed to manifest as it will, and whatever our Lindsay is gender-wise (he is considered intersex medically) he is accepted and loved. At three and a half, he walks in two inch heels better than his mommy tho:)
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