Fortunately i've never encountered a Christian willing to accept the Phelps brood of zergs as siblings in faith. I don't know what else they can do besides saying, "They don't speak for us." (Although i don't know if the Westboro Baptist Church enjoys tax-exempt status; that might be a good place to start.)

By "we" i mean collectively as well as individually. I agree with the Lucifer Effect but feel that we have a collective responsibility to work against the development and maintenance of environments where people feel like violence and abuse is "normal."