You know what badsede, you are actually ABANDONING traditional Catholic morality for a position that more resembles, in its moral idiocy, fundamentalist Islam or Protestantism.
Sure, you can say, if you really WANT to--and against all the evidence that's now in--that two homosexuals raising children will "warp" the children, making them "confused" about that all-so-sacred "complementariness" that the foolish, romantic and anti-scientific "Theology of the Body" of John Paul II has turned into a fetish in modern Catholicism--a SUBSTITUTE for the charity of the Gospels. But what you ABSOLUTELY CANNOT get around--just as those faithful Catholic objectors who resigned cannot get around it--is that leaving children cold, hungry, un-affirmed and un-adopted--literally, perhaps, out in the cold of a Boston winter--is a FAR MORE SERIOUS MORAL EVIL, consisting in a wholly unacceptable level of cruelty.
But there you are, defending it, trying to pretend that Jesus Christ would have defended it. Your "Catholic Christian morality" is an offense in the nostrils of God and His Son!
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you are actually ABANDONING traditional Catholic morality
When some of his disciples found his teaching, his moral teaching, too hard to accept, Jesus let them go rather than change it. I do not see how the refusal of a Catholic organization to participate in activities which Catholic teachings hold to be immoral can be a departure from this precedent.
and against all the evidence that's now in
Really? I haven't seen any such evidence, but I would be interested in seeing it. The only evidence that I have seen suggests the contrary .. does not prove, but only suggests, and that's the strongest I've seen.
romantic and anti-scientific "Theology of the Body" of John Paul II has turned into a fetish in modern Catholicism--a SUBSTITUTE for the charity of the Gospels.
Howso? You've made this claim many times, but I have never seen you explain it nor substantiate it. Have you read JPII's series of talks and books that make up the body of Theology of the Body?
As to the children, they are the true vicitms. The state has chosen the path of oppression, of stifling of religious freedom and personal conscience. It has decided to mandate morality, and in doing so has overstepped its bounds. It is shown itself incapable of providing for the parentless in its area, and is using the charitable drive of people as a means to force that morality upon them. The children are the vicitims, and the state is the perpetrator.
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Would your stance change if this were a group of right-wing southern baptists refusing to allow catholics to adopt children based on similar religious objections?
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No. I believe that they should have the right to act in accordance with their own morality and not be coerced into acceptance of a state-endorsed morality .. the fact that I may find that morality reprehensible does not matter. And I would still believe that the state should not be legislating morality.
Besides, it would be nothing new for Catholics in this country.
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The state legislates morality in many ways. Drug laws and prostitution laws are prime examples of legislating morality. Beyond that, even laws against rape and murder are based the moral standards that rape and murder are wrong. Non-discrimination laws may legislate morality, but in the same sense so does every other law.
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There's a difference between morality and justice. All unjust things are immoral, but not all immoral things are unjust. Laws against murder and rape safeguard a just society. They are an example of one of the primary roles of the state, to protect citizens from the aggression of other citizens.
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Non-discrimination laws are about justice as well. As with laws against such things as murder, theft, fraud, and trespassing; anti-discrimination laws protect citizens the from the aggressive mistreatment of other citizens.
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I believe that they are. However, I think that there is more at stake here than just discrimination. The state is deciding suitability criteria based on moral agenda and politics rather than an investigation into what is really best for children.
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The state is not dictating suitability criteria. The state is simply requiring state-contracted adoption services not to base suitability criteria on moral agendas and politics.
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It is dictating. It's making a legislative decision that being raised by homosexual parents has no developmental impact on children when the research directed toward the question has yet to come to a conclusive conclusion. Since its not being driven by research, suitability is being determined by politics.
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Exactly what then has Catholic Charities based it's policy to deny adoption services to lesbian and gay parents? As there is no evidence to show that having lesbian and gay parents would harm a child, the denial of state-contracted adoption services to lesbian and gay prospective parents is based solely on the moral agenda and politics of the Catholic Church.
What proof suggests that two homosexual men will raise warped children?
Religious affiliation should never be held a higher priority than the priorities of a secular state. understand you disagree with that. But this proof sounds suspicious.
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What proof suggests that two homosexual men will raise warped children?
Warped is quite the strong word. But the reality is that the studies that have been put forth to support the idea that there is no developmental impact on children of homosexual couples have been shown to be fundamentally flawed, suffering from methodology deficiencies that would not be tolerated in the rest of the scientific world. But they are being used as justification for revising the standards for appropriate situations in which to place adopted children. The state may be right, but it doesn't have the basis for the position besides politics.
Religious affiliation should never be held a higher priority than the priorities of a secular state.
You're right, I do disagree with that .. especially considering the war-mongering, civil rights denying, environment destroying priorities of the secular state in which I live.
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But the reality is that the studies that have been put forth to support the idea that there is no developmental impact on children of homosexual couples have been shown to be fundamentally flawed...
I would suspect that any study into solo parents, or parents that physically chastise or athiest parents would be found to be fundamentaly flawed. Since there does not seem to be any perfect way to raise a child. I have to admit, I am suspicious of these findings you speak of.
especially considering the war-mongering, civil rights denying, environment destroying priorities of the secular state in which I live.
If you are speaking about Umerika. Then I would question it as a secular state. On paper maybe. But I see no evidence of it being close to a secular state.
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I have to admit, I am suspicious of these findings you speak of.
The findings simply hold that the body of studies out there are, for the most part, methodologically flawed, suffering from small sample size, non-longitudinality, etc.
But I see no evidence of it being close to a secular state.
Then the question becomes even more pertinent as to why I should put it before my religious affiliation.
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Are you suggesting that the state's anti-discrimination law is comparable to the conservative "war-mongering, civil rights denying, environment destroying" agenda?
The religious argument against homosexuality, rooted not in fact but in emotion, can only devolve into, and therefore always leads to, hyperbolic comparisons of this sort, meant ostensibly to show (since non-religious people "can't see for themselves") how 'destructive' homosexuality is...
I guess it's just hard for me to reconcile my experience of knowing many good and loving queer parents, with the kind of intolerance that would lead an organization to take its toys and go home like this.
John Paul II’s “Theology of the Body” may be “Gnostic and heretical,” according to this writer:
http://www.geocities.com/pharsea/SnakeOil.html
This is very interesting on Gary Wills’ criticisms of John Paul II. Please note the response of the Pole, who thinks it quite legitimate for a critic of th e late Pope to mention the role of his Polish ethnicity in describing his world-view:
This article presumes that “complementarity” is just “patriarchalism” and homophobia writ large, whereas I think it has mostly to do with anxiety to preserve the ecclesiastical power structure:
The pope upholds his particular view of the complementarity of the sexes (which he finds revealed in the Genesis creation narrative commanding procreation) and concludes that in the church there exists a female Marian principle (no ordination) that complements a male Petrine principle (ordination). Granted, John Paul II has made efforts to defend the goodness and sacredness of married heterosexuality in his prolific writings, but his insistence upon gender complementarity and the ban on contraception ensure that his teachings fail the needs of ordinary persons. The pope's romantic rhetoric is not received beyond a minority.
While Christian teachings and understanding of sexuality and gender have been evolving over the centuries, at this point we are caught in both an underestimation of the positive power of sexuality to engender love, unity and transformation in committed couples, and an overestimation of the moral, psychosocial and theological significance of gender identity (mostly female). [I personally attribute this to the late Pope’s exaggerated and unnecessarily anti-ecumenist cult of the VIRGIN Mary.] These inadequacies are systemically interrelated and thwart change. Authorities fear that if the ban on contraception and procreative gender complementarity is relaxed, then the way is opened to homosexual unions, which would further threaten gender complementarity, which in turn would threaten the ban on women's ordination, and so on.
I should hasten to add, though, that I believe that the late Pope is to be given a great deal of credit for BEGINNING this re-visiting of traditional Catholic sexual morality. Although I believe his teachings are “half-baked” regarding gender roles and identity (“complementarity” being too narrow an understanding of the impact of gender on affectivity and identity, and also too narrow an image of God’s or even Jesus’ nature), I also believe that, in the fullness of time, a more mature, charitable and civilized attitude toward same-sex and transgendered love WILL arise.
We could actually start with a more historically accurate understanding of the encounter between Jesus and a centurion who wanted his catamite-slave (as all in the crowd of 1st-century Roman subjects would have understood the nature of that relationship) to be cured and who reached the Saviour’s heart with his plea and his gentle, trusting "queer" faith.
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Are you suggesting that the state's anti-discrimination law is comparable to the conservative "war-mongering, civil rights denying, environment destroying" agenda?
No, I am saying that this state has provided me with no basis to put it, nor its values, ahead of my religious affiliations. Any use of the state for the determination of "right" and "wrong" has to deal with the fundamentally flawed nature of our state.
The religious argument against homosexuality, rooted not in fact but in emotion, can only devolve into, and therefore always leads to, hyperbolic comparisons of this sort, meant ostensibly to show (since non-religious people "can't see for themselves") how 'destructive' homosexuality is...
But you have missed the point that I was actually making...
I guess it's just hard for me to reconcile my experience of knowing many good and loving queer parents
I grew up in a broken home, but that did not change the fact that I grew up in a loving home with good parenting. But that fact doesn't change the detrimental developmental effect that it had on me either.
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The Catholic Church Hates Gays… Posted by DAN SAVAGE at 12:09 PM
…more than it loves babies. From the Chicago Sun-Times:
The Boston Archdiocese’s Catholic Charities said Friday it would stop providing adoption services because of a state law allowing gays and lesbians to adopt…
The state’s four Catholic bishops said earlier this month that the law threatens the church’s religious freedom by forcing it to do something it considers immoral.
Here’s the really telling part: Catholic Charities 42-member board voted unanimously in December to consider gay households for adoptions. So it wasn’t lay Catholics who had a problem with gay couples adopting children, but the bishops—all conservatives, all appointed by Rome, all out of touch. And all hurting children.
When it comes to adoption, religious conservatives want us to believe that straight couples are clamoring to adopt children who are being adopted by gay couples. That’s a lie—there are more children waiting to be adopted than there are couples (or singles) willing to adopt them. Often gay couples are willing to adopt children that straight couples are not—older children, handicapped children, children with HIV, mixed-race children. So the choice isn’t between gay parents and straight parents, but between parents and no parents.
Or to put in terms the bishops can understand: if you don’t also allow gay couples to adopt children, you’re leaving a lot of kids in limbo.
And, finally, the ultimate irony: This is the Catholic Church in freaking Boston, epicenter of the sex-abuse scandal. The same bishops who refused to protect children from rampaging pedophile priests are now “protecting” children from qualified, screened, and thoroughly vetted adoptive parents who happen to be gay.
The decision by Boston's Catholic Charities to give up all adoption services because of being required by the Vatican to break state law and refuse any and all gay adopters is one of the saddest things I've heard about in a long time. A reader comments from a particular perspective:
"I was raised Catholic, but, incidentally, I'm also adopted from South Korea through none other than Catholic Charities. I would have grown up in an orphanage in Korea, as that used to be the solution to children like me who were born out of wedlock, except that my biological mother decided to put me up for adoption. Her one specific request, and I feel it's an important and notable one, given the circumstances, was that I was to be raised Catholic. I'm not entirely sure why, but I'd like to think it was because of how they treated her and their reputation, both of which are sterling in terms of adoption.
My Mom's Irish and my Dad's Italian-Lithuanian and a career military doctor, so I would have to say that I feel as American as anyone else and, for all the trouble I've had with my faith, especially in recent times with all of the Church's misguided decisions, pronouncements, and corruption, I still long to actually and truly believe. But, to hear this, even though I have not grown up in a homosexual family, tells me that clearly the Church's priorities are so skewed, if not outright bankrupt, that I almost feel inclined to pursue a different branch of Christianity. It seems inconceivable that this is their excuse to dismantle such an important part of Catholic Charities, and, for a student currently studying abroad like me, it is just another push in the long chain of events that give me great misgivings about the Church, especially in America, and about our treatment of homosexuals."
…I've said it before, but I'll say it again: one day the Church will apologize to gay people for the wounds it has inflicted on their souls and psyches. Not in my lifetime, perhaps. But one day. And now, they're punishing children to maintain their doctrinal purity. May God forgive them.
http://time.blogs.com/daily_dish/
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Dan Savage and Andrew Sullivan. I asked for the proof that you claim exists and you give me politicos. All you have done is demonstrate that the state's policy is based on opinion.
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I asked for the proof which you claimed showed that being raised by homosexual parents has no developmental effect on children.
And I wanted *you* to explain it. I read through those articles and they made the same assertions with the same lack of backup0. They were opinion without compelling reasoning.
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Look, there's ALSO NO "compelling reasoning" that same-sex parents harm the development of a child. I myself have known two pairs of same-sex parents who raised perfectly heterosexual kids in such a way as to cherish, affirm and celebrate those kids' HETEROSEXUALITY.
KIDS LIKE THOSE are the only valid assessors of the situation. Are you going to deceitfully claim that the Church and her paid "counselors" and "psychologists" are actually ASKING the REAL PEOPLE in the situation?--Actually asking the children who've benefited from "gay adoptions" about the care and love they've been given (which I've actually SEEN with my own two eyes)? No, you know they don't even want to hear it--and neither do you. Your mind is made up, like a bigot's always is!
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You've known a couple of people, and your experience falls vicitm to the same problem as so many of those studies .. small sample size. And my experience has been different, encountering just what the USC study that is so critical of the other studies found in the data of those very studies, a higher incidence of sexual promiscuity and experimentation and depression.
And as always, this is where we end up. I challenge you to substantiate your position and you call me names. You claim the banner of charity, but you give geckowwjd a run for the least charitable Catholic I have ever interacted with.
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laim the banner of charity, but you give geckowwjd a run for the least charitable Catholic I have ever interacted with.
I'll take that as a back-handed compliment, because, from my point of view, you're probably putting me into a group who are simply too bright and assertive to sit back and accept the mindless and cruel-minded pontifications dished out by your ilk. We WILL speak up for all those poor folk who are being demonized and excluded by your power-hungry ecclesiastical establishment, whose historical record is so God-awful!
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sophiaserpentia) wrote2006-03-11 01:24 pm
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Sure, you can say, if you really WANT to--and against all the evidence that's now in--that two homosexuals raising children will "warp" the children, making them "confused" about that all-so-sacred "complementariness" that the foolish, romantic and anti-scientific "Theology of the Body" of John Paul II has turned into a fetish in modern Catholicism--a SUBSTITUTE for the charity of the Gospels. But what you ABSOLUTELY CANNOT get around--just as those faithful Catholic objectors who resigned cannot get around it--is that leaving children cold, hungry, un-affirmed and un-adopted--literally, perhaps, out in the cold of a Boston winter--is a FAR MORE SERIOUS MORAL EVIL, consisting in a wholly unacceptable level of cruelty.
But there you are, defending it, trying to pretend that Jesus Christ would have defended it. Your "Catholic Christian morality" is an offense in the nostrils of God and His Son!
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When some of his disciples found his teaching, his moral teaching, too hard to accept, Jesus let them go rather than change it. I do not see how the refusal of a Catholic organization to participate in activities which Catholic teachings hold to be immoral can be a departure from this precedent.
and against all the evidence that's now in
Really? I haven't seen any such evidence, but I would be interested in seeing it. The only evidence that I have seen suggests the contrary .. does not prove, but only suggests, and that's the strongest I've seen.
romantic and anti-scientific "Theology of the Body" of John Paul II has turned into a fetish in modern Catholicism--a SUBSTITUTE for the charity of the Gospels.
Howso? You've made this claim many times, but I have never seen you explain it nor substantiate it. Have you read JPII's series of talks and books that make up the body of Theology of the Body?
As to the children, they are the true vicitms. The state has chosen the path of oppression, of stifling of religious freedom and personal conscience. It has decided to mandate morality, and in doing so has overstepped its bounds. It is shown itself incapable of providing for the parentless in its area, and is using the charitable drive of people as a means to force that morality upon them. The children are the vicitims, and the state is the perpetrator.
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Besides, it would be nothing new for Catholics in this country.
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Religious affiliation should never be held a higher priority than the priorities of a secular state. understand you disagree with that. But this proof sounds suspicious.
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Warped is quite the strong word. But the reality is that the studies that have been put forth to support the idea that there is no developmental impact on children of homosexual couples have been shown to be fundamentally flawed, suffering from methodology deficiencies that would not be tolerated in the rest of the scientific world. But they are being used as justification for revising the standards for appropriate situations in which to place adopted children. The state may be right, but it doesn't have the basis for the position besides politics.
Religious affiliation should never be held a higher priority than the priorities of a secular state.
You're right, I do disagree with that .. especially considering the war-mongering, civil rights denying, environment destroying priorities of the secular state in which I live.
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I would suspect that any study into solo parents, or parents that physically chastise or athiest parents would be found to be fundamentaly flawed. Since there does not seem to be any perfect way to raise a child. I have to admit, I am suspicious of these findings you speak of.
especially considering the war-mongering, civil rights denying, environment destroying priorities of the secular state in which I live.
If you are speaking about Umerika. Then I would question it as a secular state. On paper maybe. But I see no evidence of it being close to a secular state.
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The findings simply hold that the body of studies out there are, for the most part, methodologically flawed, suffering from small sample size, non-longitudinality, etc.
But I see no evidence of it being close to a secular state.
Then the question becomes even more pertinent as to why I should put it before my religious affiliation.
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The religious argument against homosexuality, rooted not in fact but in emotion, can only devolve into, and therefore always leads to, hyperbolic comparisons of this sort, meant ostensibly to show (since non-religious people "can't see for themselves") how 'destructive' homosexuality is...
I guess it's just hard for me to reconcile my experience of knowing many good and loving queer parents, with the kind of intolerance that would lead an organization to take its toys and go home like this.
For Your Greater Edification...
The legacy of John Paul II’s “Theology of the Body,” which this writer sees as a “stunted teaching”:
http://ncronline.org/NCR_Online/archives/032103/032103q.htm
John Paul II’s “Theology of the Body” may be “Gnostic and heretical,” according to this writer:
http://www.geocities.com/pharsea/SnakeOil.html
This is very interesting on Gary Wills’ criticisms of John Paul II. Please note the response of the Pole, who thinks it quite legitimate for a critic of th e late Pope to mention the role of his Polish ethnicity in describing his world-view:
http://www.therevealer.org/archives/daily_000267.php
This article presumes that “complementarity” is just “patriarchalism” and homophobia writ large, whereas I think it has mostly to do with anxiety to preserve the ecclesiastical power structure:
The pope upholds his particular view of the complementarity of the sexes (which he finds revealed in the Genesis creation narrative commanding procreation) and concludes that in the church there exists a female Marian principle (no ordination) that complements a male Petrine principle (ordination). Granted, John Paul II has made efforts to defend the goodness and sacredness of married heterosexuality in his prolific writings, but his insistence upon gender complementarity and the ban on contraception ensure that his teachings fail the needs of ordinary persons. The pope's romantic rhetoric is not received beyond a minority.
While Christian teachings and understanding of sexuality and gender have been evolving over the centuries, at this point we are caught in both an underestimation of the positive power of sexuality to engender love, unity and transformation in committed couples, and an overestimation of the moral, psychosocial and theological significance of gender identity (mostly female). [I personally attribute this to the late Pope’s exaggerated and unnecessarily anti-ecumenist cult of the VIRGIN Mary.] These inadequacies are systemically interrelated and thwart change. Authorities fear that if the ban on contraception and procreative gender complementarity is relaxed, then the way is opened to homosexual unions, which would further threaten gender complementarity, which in turn would threaten the ban on women's ordination, and so on.
http://www.bishop-accountability.org/news2003_01_06/2003_03_21_Callahan_StuntedTeaching.htm
Luke Timothy Johnson on American Catholicism and on the “Theology of the Body”:
http://www.catholicsinpublicsquare.org/papers/fall2001commonweal/johnsonpaper/johnsonpaper.htm
http://www.commonwealmagazine.org/article.php?id_article=200
I should hasten to add, though, that I believe that the late Pope is to be given a great deal of credit for BEGINNING this re-visiting of traditional Catholic sexual morality. Although I believe his teachings are “half-baked” regarding gender roles and identity (“complementarity” being too narrow an understanding of the impact of gender on affectivity and identity, and also too narrow an image of God’s or even Jesus’ nature), I also believe that, in the fullness of time, a more mature, charitable and civilized attitude toward same-sex and transgendered love WILL arise.
We could actually start with a more historically accurate understanding of the encounter between Jesus and a centurion who wanted his catamite-slave (as all in the crowd of 1st-century Roman subjects would have understood the nature of that relationship) to be cured and who reached the Saviour’s heart with his plea and his gentle, trusting "queer" faith.
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No, I am saying that this state has provided me with no basis to put it, nor its values, ahead of my religious affiliations. Any use of the state for the determination of "right" and "wrong" has to deal with the fundamentally flawed nature of our state.
The religious argument against homosexuality, rooted not in fact but in emotion, can only devolve into, and therefore always leads to, hyperbolic comparisons of this sort, meant ostensibly to show (since non-religious people "can't see for themselves") how 'destructive' homosexuality is...
But you have missed the point that I was actually making...
I guess it's just hard for me to reconcile my experience of knowing many good and loving queer parents
I grew up in a broken home, but that did not change the fact that I grew up in a loving home with good parenting. But that fact doesn't change the detrimental developmental effect that it had on me either.
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Posted by DAN SAVAGE at 12:09 PM
…more than it loves babies. From the Chicago Sun-Times:
The Boston Archdiocese’s Catholic Charities said Friday it would stop providing adoption services because of a state law allowing gays and lesbians to adopt…
The state’s four Catholic bishops said earlier this month that the law threatens the church’s religious freedom by forcing it to do something it considers immoral.
Here’s the really telling part: Catholic Charities 42-member board voted unanimously in December to consider gay households for adoptions. So it wasn’t lay Catholics who had a problem with gay couples adopting children, but the bishops—all conservatives, all appointed by Rome, all out of touch.
And all hurting children.
When it comes to adoption, religious conservatives want us to believe that straight couples are clamoring to adopt children who are being adopted by gay couples. That’s a lie—there are more children waiting to be adopted than there are couples (or singles) willing to adopt them. Often gay couples are willing to adopt children that straight couples are not—older children, handicapped children, children with HIV, mixed-race children. So the choice isn’t between gay parents and straight parents, but between parents and no parents.
Or to put in terms the bishops can understand: if you don’t also allow gay couples to adopt children, you’re leaving a lot of kids in limbo.
And, finally, the ultimate irony: This is the Catholic Church in freaking Boston, epicenter of the sex-abuse scandal. The same bishops who refused to protect children from rampaging pedophile priests are now “protecting” children from qualified, screened, and thoroughly vetted adoptive parents who happen to be gay.
http://www.thestranger.com/blog/archives/2006/03/05-11.php#a004755
And so is Andrew Sullivan:
The decision by Boston's Catholic Charities to give up all adoption services because of being required by the Vatican to break state law and refuse any and all gay adopters is one of the saddest things I've heard about in a long time. A reader comments from a particular perspective:
"I was raised Catholic, but, incidentally, I'm also adopted from South Korea through none other than Catholic Charities. I would have grown up in an orphanage in Korea, as that used to be the solution to children like me who were born out of wedlock, except that my biological mother decided to put me up for adoption. Her one specific request, and I feel it's an important and notable one, given the circumstances, was that I was to be raised Catholic. I'm not entirely sure why, but I'd like to think it was because of how they treated her and their reputation, both of which are sterling in terms of adoption.
My Mom's Irish and my Dad's Italian-Lithuanian and a career military doctor, so I would have to say that I feel as American as anyone else and, for all the trouble I've had with my faith, especially in recent times with all of the Church's misguided decisions, pronouncements, and corruption, I still long to actually and truly believe. But, to hear this, even though I have not grown up in a homosexual family, tells me that clearly the Church's priorities are so skewed, if not outright bankrupt, that I almost feel inclined to pursue a different branch of Christianity. It seems inconceivable that this is their excuse to dismantle such an important part of Catholic Charities, and, for a student currently studying abroad like me, it is just another push in the long chain of events that give me great misgivings about the Church, especially in America, and about our treatment of homosexuals."
…I've said it before, but I'll say it again: one day the Church will apologize to gay people for the wounds it has inflicted on their souls and psyches. Not in my lifetime, perhaps. But one day. And now, they're punishing children to maintain their doctrinal purity. May God forgive them.
http://time.blogs.com/daily_dish/
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I never claimed to give you "proof" that the Church's policy was immoral and unnecessarily cruel. That's self-evident, to any but moral idiots.
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And I wanted *you* to explain it. I read through those articles and they made the same assertions with the same lack of backup0. They were opinion without compelling reasoning.
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KIDS LIKE THOSE are the only valid assessors of the situation. Are you going to deceitfully claim that the Church and her paid "counselors" and "psychologists" are actually ASKING the REAL PEOPLE in the situation?--Actually asking the children who've benefited from "gay adoptions" about the care and love they've been given (which I've actually SEEN with my own two eyes)? No, you know they don't even want to hear it--and neither do you. Your mind is made up, like a bigot's always is!
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And as always, this is where we end up. I challenge you to substantiate your position and you call me names. You claim the banner of charity, but you give
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I'll take that as a back-handed compliment, because, from my point of view, you're probably putting me into a group who are simply too bright and assertive to sit back and accept the mindless and cruel-minded pontifications dished out by your ilk. We WILL speak up for all those poor folk who are being demonized and excluded by your power-hungry ecclesiastical establishment, whose historical record is so God-awful!