Many things that are within our rights would make our households unsuitable for the raising of children. Anti-discrimination laws only go as far as the discrimination is not based on ability. (For example, anti-discrimination laws would not prevent a transit authority from refusing to hire a blind man as a bus driver.) Homosexual parents may or may not qualify, but the state has decided one way in the absence of scientific evidence.
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