i don't have thick enough skin to argue and articulate these sort of things like you do right now. however i just wanted to let you know that it is comforting to read your efforts and thoughts. i think one of the most difficult things about oppression for me was/is that invisibility created by "common sense". so when someone like you comes along and articulates so well, giving validation to our lived experiences and a voice to boot... well something inside relaxes and is comforted.

the world tells us constantly that its all in our heads so its healing to hear others who have lived a version of what you have and you know your not crazy.