To create life in the face of certain death, is an act of hope and faith committed in defiance of death and fate.

I think this is the message of Christianity -- that Jesus defied fate, defied the archontic order, and lost his life for it -- but was given that life back, because the Father so approved of what Jesus had done.

To enjoy sex, in a free and sacred way, is to defy the archontic order that would demand we submit to fate. As I pointed out above, it is neurologically related to mystical experience. Mystical experience is that which connects us to the divine presence; and I believe the divine presence wants us to transcend fate.