I deifnitely feel ilke that as well... although I also feel that the phallus is like a rude little tongue poked out at eternity, or a rude little rocket shooting through infinity, while the vagina *is* infinity and eternity, which is why I don't understand how anyone can relate to having a vagina... and also I think why women often feel defeated and men victorious after sex, because the woman has briefly taken on the role of time and space and been defeated, while for the man, all time and space has briefly become his kingdom. (And that's also why if you deliberately reverse the gender roles during sex, the opposite happens, because it's definitely to do with what you have on the mental/spiritual plane rather than the physical. I literally forget what I've got sometimes :)